“Your Ex is not your child's Ex..." I say this over and over to newly divorced people who complain to me about this or that in relation to their new parenting situation. Your kids did not ask for a divorce. In fact, they love your ex just as much as they did before. Do not talk down about someone they LOVE! Do NOT make them feel bad for loving their own parent! They did not choose this. Choose your kids first!
"just a dad"
"Just a dad" Comments and thoughts from a divorced dad's point of view.